
Researchers from Brigham Young University recently concluded that being connected to others increases survival by up to 50%! They believe that people are motivated to take better care of themselves when they are involved and invested in others. Advanced science is also proving that positive social interaction turns on genes that promote health, while negative social interaction can turn on genes that promote inflammation in the body. There is no doubt that our relationships can be a major factor in determining our health. It really makes sense to choose our friends wisely. It also makes sense to try to be a good friend. Spend time with those who make you feel happy.
Hall of Fame College Basketball Coach John Wooden always told his players, “Be more concerned with your character than with your reputation. Character is what you really are; reputation is merely what you are perceived to be.” I have always loved this Wooden quote. I remember it whenever I feel like people are judging me unfairly or when I feel afraid to make the right choices in my life. It does not matter what others think of me. I know who I am, what I stand for, and the type of person I want to be. That is what is important. People that stand up for what is right, what is just, and what is positive in this world have high character. These people are the real role models. They are true leaders.
Do you feel like your relationships are healthy? Is social interaction important to you? Does it make you feel good to be around others like you? Do you feel you have high character? Are you more concerned with your character or your reputation? What qualities do you think true leaders should possess? Do you know anyone who is a good role model? Please share your thoughts, questions, and comments below!




